Last week, in celebration of July 4th, I posted a blog about a sign I see each day when I go for a walk that says, “We Will Get Through This Together!” It makes me think that we really are all in this together, since none of us want our friends and neighbors to get sick, or worse. I posed the question, “We all want what is best for all of us, don’t we?” I also encouraged my readers to consider the many values, beliefs, and hopes that we have which unite us as a nation and as a community.
I received several of the most respectful and polite emails asking, “Are we really in this together?” One reader said, “I feel like white collar professionals are working from their summer homes, overlooking their pools and large yards in posh neighborhoods, while other workers — including health care workers, service providers, and restaurant employees — are risking their lives and their families’ lives in order to pay their bills and save their jobs. In some cases, they have to leave children at home alone or make other very difficult and stressful decisions.”
I agree, and the best analogy I have heard, you may have heard too. It comes from Damian Barr. “We are not all in the same boat. We are all in the same storm. Some are on super-yachts. Some have just the one oar.”
Even with the lack of fairness during this pandemic, I know one thing remains true: we must find hope. In your family, when things are going awry, find hope. In your organizations, notice what is going right and find hope.
As leaders, it’s important to acknowledge the bad, but then unite others in finding the good, finding the hope, and working toward solutions.
Please share the hope and gratitude you are noticing in your own life right now.