What to Do When You Feel Like You’re Cracking: More Strategies

Oct 14, 2025 | Mindset, Performance Management

If you’ve seen yourself or your workplace reflected in this series on Quiet Cracking, it’s worth taking note. This week, we’ll explore additional steps to foster a healthier mindset in the workplace.

Expose Yourself to Positivity

Seek out colleagues who are still energized by the work. Compliment them and be curious: “When you heard about that research, you lit up! Tell me more,” or “You seemed happy to get Mr. Alonzo on your caseload. I find him tough, what do you enjoy about working with him?”

Their enthusiasm can be contagious. Instead of shutting down their passion, let it rub off on you. Newer employees can also be a source of inspiration. Have lunch with them, enjoy their fresh perspective. It may remind you of why you entered the field in the first place.

Reframe the Meaning of Work

Ask yourself: What parts of my work energize me? Even small tasks can carry meaning. Focus on ways you can make a difference. Perhaps your reporting revealed a new finding. Maybe your research influenced legislation. It doesn’t need to be monumental to matter.

By shifting your attention from what you can’t control to what you are accomplishing, you begin to restore purpose.

Set Boundaries with Technology

Once you’re home, implement “lights out” for your devices. Turn off your phone, silence notifications, and be fully present: with your children, your partner, your pet, or simply your own quiet space. My niece told me that she paints and colors after work. Giving your brain a true digital break helps you recover.

Consider Professional Support

Sometimes self-care isn’t enough. If you feel like you’re unraveling despite your best efforts, seek professional counseling or therapeutic support. There’s strength in recognizing when you need additional help, and professional guidance can offer tools and perspectives that go beyond what friends and colleagues can provide.

Quiet Cracking Can Be Quiet Mending

Quiet Cracking doesn’t happen overnight, and it doesn’t mean you’re failing—it means you’re human. By reaching out early, creating balanced solutions, revisiting the basics, leaning on positivity, reframing your work, setting boundaries, and seeking professional support when needed, you can take meaningful steps toward steadiness and renewal.

This article is part of an ongoing series on Quiet Cracking. Each piece has looked at this phenomenon from a different angle including how to recognize it in yourself, how leaders can prevent it in their teams, and now, what you can do when it affects you personally. My hope is that these strategies remind you that you’re not alone, and that there are always steps both large and small you can take toward balance, energy, and renewed purpose. If you haven’t yet, I encourage you to revisit the earlier posts in this series and share them with colleagues who might also need support.

Which of these habits and mindsets will you start with this week?

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