“How were your holidays?” I asked one of my coaching clients, Michael. “Amazing!” he said. I was shocked. Was he living in the same world I was in? I queried him further.
“Sure,” he acknowledged. “There’s Covid, and money issues, but it’s all about managing expectations,” he continued.
Michael said that his family confronted the reality that this year would be different, and then they adjusted their expectations. They decided to focus on things that would make the holiday special with just the three of them.
Then Michael turned to talking about work and all that was positive in his work life. Those were his Covid silver linings.
Michael made me think about my work-related Covid silver linings. Here are some of mine as we start 2021:
- I have had meaningful work every single day since the beginning of the pandemic. This is significant in the life of a consultant.
- Through more one-on-one meetings, I have been able to get to know many of my clients at a much deeper level. We have had more time together and we are less rushed. Many, actually most, have started more positive and productive behaviors and habits.
- On the Concordia team, our colleague Mary has always been remote. Before March we worked in the Concordia offices, thus Mary was on the fringe. Now that all of us are remote, Mary has been able to contribute much more and we love and benefit from her input.
- I have used all this home office time to give my work environment a face lift. Translation: I sorted and threw out a lot of old material.
- I continue to receive new referrals and I have three new clients.
- While I could continue for pages on my many silver linings, there are two that are tied for best. One is that I can conduct high-level programs while wearing slippers and the other is that you are still reading my newsletters and thus still a part of my life. I appreciate you.
Let me know what your silver linings are. I enjoy hearing from you!
NO COMMUTE!!!!!
But when do you do your reading? I need your current reading list.
I’ve re-imagined my time and now spend sunny mornings stitching and have some lovely projects finished (one 20 years old!) and cloudy mornings packing up things I no longer need or want so they can be tossed or donated. Afternoons I read (finally enough time!) and cuddle with the dog. I always have time to talk, zoom, or whatever with friends. I appreciate the scheduling: it took a lock down for me to realize I needed more structure in my retirement. Also, more baking.
So glad you realize how much structure can help. Sounds like it’s working!