Keeping the Conversation Going After a Conference

Jul 29, 2025 | Mindset, Performance Management

For the last few weeks I have been writing about the art of networking and within networking, attending conferences. Apparently, I’m not alone. After reading our recent blogs on connecting at conferences, a reader asked a great question:

What are some more ways to follow up after a conference? 

Here are some practical strategies to help you turn introductions into real professional relationships — and sometimes even lasting friendships:

Schedule Follow-Up Time in Advance

When you add a conference or networking event to your calendar, also block off an hour (within 48 hours after the conference ends) just for follow-up. Use that time to send personalized emails, LinkedIn messages, texts, or even short video messages, whatever suits your communication style and business model.

Be Ready to Exchange Information

Some people still use business cards. Others prefer QR codes or LinkedIn. Be ready for all three. If your industry leans digital, have your business card or LinkedIn QR code open and ready to scan from your phone.

Right Pocket = Right Away

Here’s a simple technique, when someone gives you their card, sort it right away.

  • Right pocket = right away (people you want to follow up with immediately)
  • Left pocket = later (nice to meet, but not urgent)

No pockets? Use two sides of your folder or notebook the same way.

Take Notes That Matter

Right after the interaction — or even during it — jot down a few keywords in your phone or on the back of their card. It could be something you discussed, a personal detail, or a resource you promised to send.

These small notes will help you personalize your follow-up. Did they love hiking the Camino? Are they a wine enthusiast? Are they about to become a grandparent? These are the details that turn a polite message into a real connection.

Use a Template, Then Personalize It

Have a few follow-up email templates ready to go so you’re not reinventing the wheel each time. Just tweak each one to reference your specific conversation or next steps.

Follow, Connect, Comment

If email doesn’t feel right, or if you want to reinforce the connection, reach out on LinkedIn. Don’t send a blank invite; include a quick note about where you met. Later, like or comment on their posts. It’s a simple way to stay visible.

Batch and Track

If you’ve met several people, use a spreadsheet or simple CRM (Customer Relationship Management) tool to track names, notes, and follow-up actions. It prevents dropped balls and keeps future outreach organized and easy.

Following up isn’t just about politeness — it’s about building momentum. Relationships grow when you nurture them. A great conversation is just the beginning.

Some of my closest friendships and strongest professional connections started with a simple conversation at a networking event. You never know where a thoughtful follow-up might lead.

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