Leading By Savoring and Anticipating

May 8, 2025 | Leadership, Performance Management

I’m currently preparing to deliver one of my favorite presentations, facilitation skills, to a fairly new organization to me. Having previously presented to another group within the same organization, I look forward to their engagement and enthusiasm. The anticipation of reconnecting with this audience and sharing insights once again fills me with excitement and motivation.

Personally, I am looking forward to all the great blooms in my summer garden, grilled dinners served on my back porch, visits with my adult kids, a wedding in NY, and an upcoming trip to Iceland. It’s a lot to get excited about!

Anticipation isn’t limited to personal experiences; it plays a vital role in our professional lives as well. Consider the excitement of launching a new project or collaborating with a new team. These moments of looking forward invigorate our workdays and provide a sense of purpose.

In our fast-paced, task-driven lives, it’s easy to become consumed by to-do lists, deadlines, and the relentless pursuit of productivity. Amidst this hustle, we often overlook a simple yet profound source of happiness: anticipation.

Anticipation isn’t merely about waiting; it’s about savoring the excitement of what’s to come. Whether it’s a long-awaited vacation, a special event, or a cherished work project, the act of looking forward can significantly enhance our well-being.

Research has shown that anticipating positive events activates the brain’s reward system, releasing dopamine — a neurotransmitter associated with pleasure and motivation. This means that the mere act of looking forward to something enjoyable can boost our mood and increase our overall happiness.

Moreover, studies indicate that the anticipation of an experience can sometimes bring more joy than the experience itself. This phenomenon is particularly evident with experiential purchases, such as trips or concerts, where the planning and anticipation phases contribute significantly to our overall satisfaction.

What are you looking forward to in your work and personal life?

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