A Thimble or a Beer Stein?

A Thimble or a Beer Stein?

You’ve followed all the rules for an effective performance review with your assistant:  you found a time that works for both of you; you booked a private spot; and you made sure you wouldn’t be interrupted.  It all seemed to be going well until he suddenly...
Bullying in the Workplace?

Bullying in the Workplace?

It’s not me, it’s you…. Four years ago, I was asked to coach Tracy.  Tracy was by definition morbidly obese.  She was experiencing extreme distress and anxiety because her colleagues – grown adults – teased and taunted her about her...
Drinking and Driving in Cubicles

Drinking and Driving in Cubicles

I was driving my daughter Katie when she was about six years old. Along the way — with a facial expression that communicated “I am very upset” — she exclaimed, “Why are you drinking that?” It was true that in the afternoons, when I...
Make Your Meeting A Webinar

Make Your Meeting A Webinar

  With a webinar, two rather than one of the senses is engaged.  Rather than relying completely on sound, the presenter can also engage the sense of seeing. You also have the ability to:   See who is on the call (take attendance)   See who has left the call  ...
Self‑Defeating Behaviors

Self‑Defeating Behaviors

Oftentimes, when working in or with a group, a member’s individual needs interfere with the groups’ effectiveness.  Whether you are leading the group or you are a member of the group, the groups effectiveness depends on the ability to notice manage and redirect...